There comes a point in time when you realize you are stuck to something that clearly ain’t sticking to you. In the beginning, everything is promises, peaches, and paradise. Later, you find out it was all an illusion. A „sell“ of some sort. We are all trying to sell the BEST version of ourselves in the beginning. So everyone appears perfect. But one mistake you can make is trying to fill the position of your soulmate YOURSELF. Let it flow. When „mad day“ comes, sometimes it isn’t fixable. And you know what, BE OKAY WITH THAT!
Every no puts you closer to your yes.
So every failed attempt at romance puts you closer to THE ONE. Let it flow, beloved. And if you think there is only ONE person on this planet that is capable of loving you the way you deserve, you’re wrong. Basically, don’t be stuck on someone just because you don’t want it to fail. It could actually be a blessing!!!
Always be honest in the beginning. If you a heaux, say you a heaux. Don’t wanna settle down? Cool. Let’s both play. No problem.
Honesty is sexier than sugarcoated nothings.
Life keeps going. No one is perfect. Sometimes you’ll mess up simply out of fear. Like sometimes „things are too perfect“ and you mess it up being nervous. You can’t continue the cycle. Maybe stop caring so much. Mirror what they give you. Take nothing personal. Everything ain’t a good fit. And after you swallow your pride, you attempt to communicate, but nothing happens or changes, move on. You’ve done all you can. Like they say „don’t ride for nobody who won’t put in on gas money.“
Just not that into you.
When you can walk away from a situation smiling, there’s a new wind of motivation. Be ready to mingle. You could be willing to jump through rings of fire underwater for a person and it still will not be enough. You might as well train for the olympics. If they aren’t treating you the way they treated you on DAY ONE, don’t carry them into tomorrow. Know when the thrill is gone, beloved. Know when they’re just not that into you. It doesn’t always mean you aren’t worthy of them. It usually means they actually aren’t worth of YOU.
The most beautiful love story.
Listen, no need to have hard feelings when it doesn’t work out. Just don’t let „good memories“ distract you from the BAD. Do your part until they no longer do theirs. Address the issue respectfully. Stay. Or Go. But never go backwards!
THE ONE is out there waiting to meet you and enjoy the most beautiful love story you’ve ever known. Just believe it. Hold them accountable.There’s always someone chillin in the cut, waiting to make you feel better about a situation. What a blessing.
If you let failed romance make you bitter, you’ll miss out on what’s truly meant for you …